Everyday riddles
Our everyday lives are full of clues and mysteries, but when you look beneath the surface, you’ll find many clues and mysteries. If you look at it with the eyes of a detective, you might wonder how to solve it and what kind of scenery it would reveal. In this lesson, we’ll share how to observe our daily life and what insights we can use to solve it.
Everyday clues
When we wake up every morning and go to work, there are clues we don’t realize are there if we look closely. Whether it rained the night before, who got up and moved first thing in the morning, or even your coffee cup might tell the story of the day.탐정365
What about the refrigerator you see every day in your living room? It’s full of clues about your family’s lifestyle. Little things like an expired saucepan, an overflowing pantry, or milk that’s nearing its expiration date can tell us a lot about what life is like in your home.
So I often think to myself. I wonder what the landscape would look like if I looked at these little things with a detective’s eye.
Emotional cues
If you happen to see a different tone of voice or a new emoji in a message from a friend, you might recognize a change in their emotions or a different situation than usual. Being able to read a person’s emotions in a very subtle way is a very important skill and observation that a private investigator brings to the table when looking at a case. We can do that in our lives as well.
Sometimes a single facial expression or gesture can be a clue. Or you can read a family member’s or coworker’s hand gestures, tone of voice, or mood for the day. When our wives are groggy and silent, or our children bite their nails for no reason, we often miss these signals, or even pay them no attention. But if you look at it through the eyes of a detective, you’ll notice these things and think about how to empathize with them.
Thinking of where I’m usually at in the field
If you have a book in a space that you usually spend time in, such as your bedroom or bed, the title of the book can tell you what you’re interested in and reflect what you’re thinking about, and if you look at the contents of the book, you can see traces of notes or important clues. Just by imagining this, you can understand the exact state of mind through clues.
Even the clutter in a drawer can have a special meaning. You can also find another aspect of your life when you find something you normally hide, such as an object.
Mystery on a Stranger’s Street
An umbrella that suddenly disappears, a shoe left behind, a woman crying alone in a subway station, a man dozing on a park bench – why did this happen? If you just look, you can imagine all sorts of things that could have happened, and you can create your mystery.
A scrap of paper in a cafe, an advertisement on a flyer, or a poster at a bus stop can be an important clue to your day if you look closely enough.
Time to solve the mystery
As private investigators, we always ask ourselves questions in our work. Why do I get angry easily these days? Why do I get tired easily? why is this situation happening? We observe these inner states and solve them one by one, like solving a mystery. If you keep doing this, you’ll eventually accumulate quite a few clues. These records can help you understand yourself better, and over time, they can become the first pages of your life novel.
If Goulds is asking us to look for clues, every moment of our lives can be a clue. If we look at our lives through the eyes of a detective, we can see that a lot is going on and a lot of mysteries are lurking within them. So if we develop the ability to look more closely and observe our surroundings, our daily lives, or the lives of those around us, can become quite an intriguing mystery. Keep in mind that you may be the only one who can solve these mysteries.